Saturday, September 6, 2008

Pay No Attention to Boundaries

"Pay No Attention to Boundaries." Carlana Stone, pg 127

I do believe no matter how good we are, there are certainly boundary for us to leap over towards the success. Sometimes the boundaries are the people around you, even yourself!

There are people in this world who don't want to see your success and they would just acknowledge you for who you are and thinking that you will not go further than that. Well, if you stop doing what you like just because there are people like that, you are a loser.

I believe there are always boundaries in everything we do. The question, how do we overcome that boundary?

Say no to it? Or maybe taking a leap on it? Break it? Or spare it for another time?

Try this (exercise from Carlana);

Pick out any goals you want to achieve and write down all of them. Write down a game plan, decide on path, and explore the consequences. Then ACT. You may change your strategy if you need along the way.

You will find that no matter how big or small your goals are, no matter what happen, you succeed or not, you will feel proud and you will realise this because no matter what it is, at least you know that you already done your best and it should give you an appropriate amount of satisfaction. You will feel greater, and you will fell that you are in control.

So, if people out there ask you to stop doing what you like, then you don't listen to them. They are just the breakers. No matter what condition you are in, you must know that there is nobody to give you what you want. It always you and that is only you who can live your life the way it should be.

People will say anything to make them feel great. So, if there's a voice of defiance or objection, just pretend you are not listening. They are the true boundaries.

Pay no attention to the attention, yes?